Let Love teach you what You are.
Dis-identify with roles and with ego concepts, like possession. The crisis is not changed at the form/behavior level but at the mind/belief level. Ask what the purpose is for what you are doing. Shift from being driven by the ego to forgiveness. The Holy Spirit will help you with the mind training. Then you can be truly loving and helpful, drawing loving witnesses.
Be patient. You can change your perception and free your identity!